It’s 2 a.m., and I’m supposed to be writing this column. Instead, I’m scrolling through flight deals and daydreaming, convincing myself that a solo trip to Aruba might be precisely what I need to get rid of some stress. There’s something so exciting and thrilling about booking a one-way ticket, landing in an unfamiliar city, and navigating my life entirely on my own from there.
But let’s be honest, would I actually survive a solo trip?
For some, solo traveling is an actual dream: no strict itinerary restrictions, no waiting for friends to get their finances together or get ready in time, and no meeting in the middle of activities. It’s all about me: freedom, discovering what I like, and living life like the main character. But for others (maybe me included?), it sounds like a recipe for overthinking. Who’s going to take my Instagram pictures? What if I get lost? And let’s be honest, how do I eat at a restaurant alone without feeling awkward? I mean, I can eat at a restaurant in my city solo, but in a different country?
IDK, man.
Social media has made solo traveling look so cool. We see TikTok users posting aesthetic solo dining experiences, journaling in cafés, and taking flawlessly timed beach photos. But what they don’t always show is the raw, uncut, behind-the-scenes reality: the nerve-wracking airport waiting periods, the struggle of carrying all your luggage alone, and maybe even the occasional, “Wow, I really wish someone was here to take this moment in with me.”
Still, the idea of solo travel is so tempting to me. The thought of waking up and not having to follow anyone else’s schedule? Very liberating. The chance to put my independence to the test in a new city? Exciting. And The possibility of making random friends along the way? A social experiment I just might be willing to try.
One of my biggest concerns with solo traveling is safety. While it is easy to get lost in the romanticized, made-up version of exploring the world alone, the reality is that traveling solo requires a level of awareness and caution that group trips don’t always need. Researching safe areas to be in, keeping all valuables secure, and avoiding risky situations are all important for survival. But all at the same time, solo travelers often say they become more intuitive and street-smart by relying solely on themselves and putting themselves in these situations. It’s filled with a mix of adventure and responsibility, which, honestly, sounds like an interesting challenge for me.
Another challenge for me is solitude. Lately, I’ve been spending more time with myself, which has made me appreciate my own company, but solo travel takes that to an extreme level. Some people thrive on alone time, while others might find it overwhelming. Being in a new place without a familiar face to talk to can be intimidating. Still, it can also pose an opportunity to meet new people outside my social circle. Hotel resorts, group tours, and local gatherings make it easier to connect with other travelers. Some argue that solo travel isn’t lonely at all; it forces you to engage with others more than you usually would if you had the comfort of a travel buddy.
Despite these uncertainties, solo traveling continues to call my name. I can imagine myself walking through the vibrant street markets, getting lost in art museums, and sitting in a café enjoying the pastries. No distractions, no obligations, just me in my world. And maybe that’s the point of it all. Maybe solo travel isn’t just about visiting new places; it’s about proving to myself that I can handle them all alone.
So, would I actually survive a solo trip? I think so. It might come with awkward moments and a few hiccups, but I’d also come back with stories and experiences that are entirely my own. And isn’t that what travel is all about?
Would you ever travel alone, or are you strictly a group trip type of person?
